Do u use repeated pet names for your lover?

Halo amis!!!! I was conducting a survey on Facebook and it went pretty well. I had a very good response from my FB friends. You see thats why everyone has decided to stick with Facebook coz there is so many acivities to do! I am glad that i fixed myself with Facebook.

Well.. Today’s topic is with regards to my survey that i conducted.

Would you call your current love the same lovey dovey way that you use to call your EX?

This is a topic that i very mcuh wanna discuss. This has been biting me for a very long time. When you are in a deep relationship, majority of indivuals love calling their other half names like”Sweetheart, Baby, Honey and blar blar…I totally defend myself and other’s out there that its someone special in your life and that you want to cherish them with ur lovey dovey names….

But here is the question….. Do u name or call your current boyfriend the same way that you use to call your EX? Ouch!!!!!!!!! Now this is my argument for today….Take a quick glace on the comments that i received from facebook:

Killawill William at 10:45am April 23

i dunno that but i know one thing u r my partner in crime always and i mish u

Rathika Devi at 11:45am April 23

Hmmm… personally i won’t… It wld feel too weird… the more common terms like darl / baby… i wld… But the ones that were invented for that one guy.. i wouldn’t use it on anyone else….

Geraldine Tan at 12:15pm April 23

i dont think i will, i would just change names of them, i wont stick to one name, fr example dear. SO BORING. i dont call them nice names, i call them sluts, OEI, bitches and stuffs.

Geetanjali Bathumalai at 12:22pm April 23

ohh dear !! very gd topic!!! … my Opinion wld be .. NO!!… i mean maybe the normal words like “dear” darlin” wld be ok ….but not the special names u used to call ur EX…… if u do then it only shows tat u have not gotten over ur EX…….

Cheryl Li at 12:50am April 24

surely not… wud bring back too many bad memories!!! kekek.

Majority of them come in common terms with me that they will not regard or call their current

boyfriend the way they use to call their EX. I believe that is very insulting to the current lover you are with.

But of coz some folks out there can speak out and they reckon that when they are in a new relationship

which is correspondent to being in a total new life. I personally feel that you should never bring your past memories to the

new-fangled relationship you are with. Everyone is special in their own way.. Everyone deserves to be treated in a lovely way

Like what my friend geetz says in the comment box…Calling the same name means that you have yet gotten over your EX… I

solidly deem that when you utter the same name for your current lover….Doesnt it bring back the memories of ur EX? There are so many names to be called? So y use the same old names on your partner? That is very much disgusting….. If u are in more than 1 relationship .. does it allow you to call your 5 other lovers the same way ? Gosh!

Monkey See Monkey Do. Unoriginal Sin!.

Hey peeps….Its been eons since i last wrote on my blog! yesh i have been on a silent retreat!! * yeah for like real!!* Cant imagine myself being silent even for a split second…. gosh!!! Just have been a busy bee with work and blar blar!!!

Night was falling. The sun disappeared below the horizon and the sky turned dark . It had just finished raining and i spotted a rainbow right outside my room window. With a soothing song playing right behind me and the room being filled with cold silence i am writting this blog….

Let me just say something a head of time before you start to question why I’m doing all of this on the account of seemingly one individual. What is being original all about? I think i have always stated on my blogs that being creative is the best thing u can do for yourself.. I have decided to take it upon myself to type all of this out because I am irritated by the subject, the ignorance, and the hypocracy. It is also because I feel that some things, just need to be said. If you don’t plan on reading, then don’t bother commenting. That may seem a bit harsh, but to me that is just being respectful. Thank you.

Being innovative is something that has to come in you and not from others. What is it with some deprived individuals that by doing the exact likeness of that someone will bring you far or make it look like its been created by thyself?

Le me give u a scenario… A is someone who loves the artistic world and he is always creating something new for himself with his bright ideas and posting it out for people to appreciate his thoughts, reflections, judgements. But there comes B who is not willing to cultivate his own ideas and he does the duplicity of A. From head to toe i would say. There are some obvious examples of how this particular individual tried to do such.word to word, actions to actions, likings to likings, styles to styles!!!….

People recognise you for your orginality… Not for your unreal actions… I strongly believe that “B” is very much fascinated with “A”… Spellbound to “A’s” Surrounding, lifestyle, A’s Likings, A’s actions, performance and the list goes on… ”If you create your own characters, you are definitely original.”

You can never be ‘A”! Coz it takes only one to be “A” and another to be a “B” Be yourself and people will love you for that. Stop that Copyright thingy.! Guess these folks out there have not been well thought of being unique! Hopefully turning into a new leaf will do good for the affected souls!!! I have got only one thing to say…

All things original are created, but not all that is created is original!

Never a Marley and me!!!

Oh well.. I have to write blog about what i am feeling right now… All my years of being a kid, teens, adult… i always wanted to have a little puppy for myself.. Have alwis been asking my mum and dad and when they came to an agreeable term… there comes my villi chechi and screams her lungs out and tell me that dogs scare the wits out of her….

Well as being the typical mummy of mine… Just to make me smile she had promised to get a sheep dog for my birthday and for excelling well in my exams when i was in the 8th grade… “Dont be too happy for me.. As it was not getting a puppy from SPCA but i was heading off to Toys R’ us at dhoby gahut back then….Well keeping my spirit hgh up in the sky… i went about to choose my little puppy dog which turned out to be a soft toy…Netherless i named it “Shaggy”

Then the years passed *Oh yes i am still keeping it* i grew out of it and kept it in my room as rememberance… BUt later the years i had my own room.. Which i very much despised that there is not going to be much of a bond with my chechi as she has got her own room…. So i decided to keep fishes to keep me going.. I had a gorges fish tank all set up for me and i named it ” Bobo”!.

That kept me going for several mths and all.. But one nite after coming back from a full swing clubbing night at papa joe’s ….i came home felling all gushed out and decided to turn on the aircon to get me all cool and warm under my quilted blanket… Then did i realise the nxt sunny morning that my fish was all frozen and was ready to get to the wet market to be sold!!!! *sobz*

I was all so remorseful and told my dad that i badly wana have a puppy dog… then my dad tried talking and coming with terms with my sis that it will be very much fun-filled to have a puppy around… so dad had promised to have that little cutie around our house. He told me that the following day we shall go pick it up… Then comes another bolt from the blue.. My stepmum tells me that she is finally pregnant….. Arrrrrrrrgh!!! it was very much happiness for me and on the other hand they told me that they cant handle the dog for now as she will be all flushed up with her preganancy and blar blar.. So i agreed to that fact all these years and there came my little buju!!!!

Not till last nite when i watched “Marley and me”…. The start looked so refreshing with a little buddy with u..But after watching it with so much of groans and moanz…. the climax was big time excruciating…. I literally teared for a good 15mins then i consoled myself that i will never have a puppy coz i wont know what i will end up like if my little puppy has to leave me one day…. That will be so grief stacking!!!

Movies, like Marley and me, Abiyum naanum… makes us ponder and tells us that nothing in life is perm…. Let it be a pet or let it be ur own flesh and blood….I shall live life to the fullest and only time will tell if i fix on to get a puppy….. “kratos will be the given name!”

Working on my fitness!

Well.. well.. I know this is more that 2 weeks due memberz!!! but you must understand that i just got better after being under the weather!!! I have been mind boggling and have been lately under so much frustration for the fact that i couldnt do my regular excercises as i was not pink in health.

So i was wondering how many indian gals out there wld be having the same thoughts as me? Or even to the fact that they will be this sick worried just like me? I was all so paranoid that i couldnt do my 2.4km run for days .. my crunches.. my dumbells have been missing the touch of me for long….

Not many indian women out there are this concern about their body weight. Its really very shameful to know that they hardly hit the gym or even get ur flabby tummy into place. I mean some getaway with the fact that they are small build and therefore it will never impinge on them. But trust me…. from looking at those women’s arms i can see where all that curry, sweets, and yada yada is stored.. Right on ur flabby arms and tummy baby!!!

Even to the fact those whobbly legs … Its so aweful when gals with dimply thighs wear shorts or sumtin skimpy!!!i mean from the back frame it looks so horrifyin! If you think u fit the bill… please do it only when u have shred those fats of urs and get trim!!!

I really feel that going for a good run, hitting 100 crunches a day, carrying weights for ur byceps, triceps, will keep u trim and fit! Its all not about dieting.. There is variations of dieting…. Its good totake all your 3 meals… but remember to take it moderately.. and try to illuminate anythinf that has high in carbo!! well being indians what much can i say about the food list.. Rice is their main dish!! gosh! how the hell can anyone eat rice? I hate rice!!!!

I have the passion for cooking and its in my blood stream.. but that doesnt give me that excuse to gobble down everytin n anithin that i cook.. I think having cereal will be a good start for the day … But when i say cereal….it has to be in high in protein and i am not talking abt having coco crunch or coco pops with high bonbon levelz… Try to take something that has more wheats with tropial fruits in it.. Drinking milk is one of the best way to keep that hunger away from u. But of coz somthing with a trim milk!!!

On the general.. Food is somthing we all love eating.. But there are certain things that we can omit and be in the best of health!!! Try to have some activities that involves some cardio! Being couples doenst only mean that u need to go to the park, movies, or somewhere to pamper ur tummies.. Y not hit the gym with ur love ones? Have a marathon with ur darlink? Workout in the same room?Gosh i feel good when we see stream of perspiration formed!!! If i can see the results.. y cant u? I am passionate about my health and fitness!!!

The Day!!!

What is Valentine's Day all about my dear frendus? Is it all about Gifts, Kisses, Hugs all that mollycoddles just for that specific day Feb 14th? It all started a couple days after Christmas. Store fronts were filled with heart-shaped chocolate boxes, cuddly stuffed animals, and candy hearts with little sayings on them.
Some believe that February 14th is the most romantic day of the year, while others are ready to boycott the money making holiday. Forgive me if I decline to enthusiastically join this commercialized holiday ritual.

Valentines Day at one time was a symbol of youthful love. Though the origin of the day is somewhat hazy, the importance of the day has been stripped by the commercialism that now puts a huge guilt trip on us to “show our love" by purchasing our significant other a gift they don’t really need or want.

Valentine’s Day ranks second to Christmas in terms of the number of greeting cards that are sent. How pathetic is that.but seriously here men, we women don’t need the $100.00 bouquets of roses, the over priced Hallmark card or dinner at a fancy restaurant.

I am a person who is very voracious for love, a huge romantic, but to me an over priced bouquet of red roses doesn’t say love. To me romance is when my love one comes home from work and surprises me with a bouquet of fresh flowers because he wanted to brighten my day or when I wake up in the morning and his arms are around me or when he runs around me when i am busy cooking in the the kitchen . It is those little things that show me that he loves me and appreciates me. Just to higlight to some people out there who dont know the reason why valentine's day is being celebrated or i would say a day for you to spend all your hard earned savings lavishingly .. here u go...

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men — his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death. Valentine was jailed .According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor's daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

I strongly believe that just not that specific day where you illustrate your love to ur loved ones.... Make them feel warm in your arms not today, but every other day. Kiss them not only, but every other min of the day.... Yearn for them not only today, but every split second....caress them and make them forget the entire world with just your warm breathe.....Grow old together, Die in the hands of the one who gives u his/her heart.... I always told this to my entire crowd whenever i hosted on stage.... LOVE Means... L : Listen to each other O: Offer what you have to each other V : Value the memories of each other E: Endure good and bad with that one person.... My Valentine's day has been very sacred for the past 2years....i believe not in gifts but i deem that everyday love should be given out... And here i am today giving my love will all my heart and welcoming the overwhelmed love from the other beat with open arms....
It is more important to give spontaneously. Don’t wait for a specific day to show your wife/Hubby or girlfriend/boyfriend that you love her/him. Valentine's Day is just a one day away. Show your significant other that you care by giving them your time. It is important to appreciate them everyday. This Valentine’s Day let your gift come from your heart and not the store shelf. Loving you in a loving way my love...... as long as we can love each other , and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. Death ends a life not a relationship!!!! Happy Valentine's day!!!!

Do Indian Girls be on familiar terms with Make Up?

I wanna talk about something that’s been camping in my mind for quite sometime..After surfing Friendster, Facebook and Tagged i shoddily want to talk about.. btw.. (i badly want to see comments from my members and bi)  Indian Women with Makeup....!!!!

It so heartbreaking to know the fact that many indian girls these days do not know how to groom themselves with apparels and cosmectics..... I do have indian friends who have mind blowing sense of dressing and makeup.. hats of to those who know how to groom themselves!!!  Cheers to those folks!!!

Lets start with  the skin tone.... Dark skin can be a bane for people who crave a fair complexion. Though a lot of people have naturally dark skin, darkening of skin could also be due to hyperpigmentation and various other reasons like Heredity. I dont blame them if they want to look fair on pictures. That doesnt give them an excuse to powder themselves with foundation powders that is extremely white and those kind that you use for stage chinese opera (wayang) ! What is the right make up for dark and dusky complexion? .Choose a creamy or liquid foundation, but one that is not oily. Its always better to use a water based foundation.Choose somthing that is very near to your skin tone.... 

I am not saying that people with fair skin always have an advantage... Well fairer skin also have to keep a watch with their powder and nothing too white as the same will apply for them (Wayang).

Concealers

As we all jolly well know that "Naturally Indian girls " have dark eye rings and patches around their faces. Something that we cant really blame ourselves but of coz due to our pigmataions revolved. That doesnt give us the excuse not to cover up those dark eye bags which looks more worst of then the Panda bears out there. Many make the mistake with powdering themselves and not concentrating important facts like under eye and the ears. If u have a close look on the pictures that many girls take... their forehead will be white, and their eyes wld have been overlooked at and their ears are diffrent shade from their faces!! Thats when concealers come to your rescue...Concealers are applied to cover dark circles around the eyes, thereby grweatly enhancing the appearance of the face. Don't use a concealer that's white or more than half a shade lighter than your skin tone. Try for an exact match. Apply before foundation. Set the concealer with powder.

Eye Shadows and Eye Make up come Eyebrows

Lets start with eyebrows.. Women out there !!! whats wrong with u and ur skinny shaped eyebrows? Eyebrows are meant to be prominent and as being indians we naturally have thick eyebrows which is a blessing and many manjans yearn for that thickness. But sadly indians do not value that asset that they have! Most of these babez out there look more like they have tattooed their brows just like all those ah soh aunties that come to the wet market....!

Eyeshadows: This is something that many lack in.. I just dont understand whats with their unmatching colour conbination that they have? god !!!! Sometimes many girls have this understanding that their eyelids are some kind of drawing blocks so they get all excited and paint their entire eye lids with the irrelevant colours that they have....! I just hope they will learn to blend the colours according to their outfits and please invest on good and high end eyeshadows my dear babes out there!!!!

Hairdo's

Many failed to catch some good informational programmes like America's Top Model, Good Magazines and many other materials to get their tips on hairdos......Lets look at the manjans and the nattex out there who are very well verse with the up to date hairdo!!! Unlike tamilians... who are late telecast and after all that fashion is over and done with, thats when they come up with those hairdo.... or they have to be a replica of some other gals and try to be like them! "People creativity is something that many people lack in!!!!" * especially tamilians!!*

Creativity means is a mental and social process involving the generation of new ideas or concepts!!!! Be yourself and come up with something new and not something that someone already have the  possession!!!! Create your own styles and allow people to distinguish you for what you are and not be a Clone of someone!!!

On the whole....not all but handful of  Indian Girls are the one who can give Ronald Macdonald clown a run for the money where make up is concerned!" Go natural as indian diva's like us look best without those paintings.. Makeup is just some Add ons and not ur daily stipulation!!!! Wake up ur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and cut those god damn flashes on ur cam whenu wana take snaps... it aint making the pic look any better!!!! 

They say Old is Gold....!!!!

Old is gold.... My today's topic.... btw... my sincere apologies to my members for the late updates.. kinda held up with thinkoz...

This entire week i have been catching some black and white movies...

1. Kudiyiruntha Kovil
2. Ennga veetu pillai
3. Nenjil oor aalayam

I am very much amazed how the oldies use to go gaga n gugu over MGR...and even yada yada even till today. *includes ma dad too* an ardent fan of that faggady doo daa....

Its so much of idiocy to know that 1960's superstar had a repulsive dressing sense and that his body was never robust at all... Its so sad to know that poor Panduri Bai had to be his mother or elder sister... Who ever did casting for his movies, had a bad casting knowledge!

Talking about the actress... hmm *pukes* i can never submit to Aunty saroja devi... whats with her kann mayi? gosh? acting cute in his movies with that kinda of cracked voice? please give me a break.... nothing beats padmini.. she is one actress revolved with so much talents... Naatiyam, Actin skills, many more .. beauty.. and i mean real beauty with/o having to paint her face so much with powder and eye shadows... Padmini won several awards and the goverment of the former soviet union released a postage stamp to honour her!

Songs: I cant contradict that songs were good during the old days...The lyrics are still ringing in my head! MSV is a legend too... but there is once in a interview TMS claimed that there is no MGR and Sivaji without having to have his voice in them... hmm.. thats something which i have to give a good reflection....

For a wrap... People should open up their eyes and support the real artist in cinefield... If only actors and actresses made a better choice with their roles and characters... MGR is a cartoon image to the cinefield..... Sivaji is legendary.....

My preference for actors:

Sivaji

Muthuraman

kalyana Kumar

Nagesh

Thangavelu

Manorama

Padmini -

Major SundarRajar

Ravikumar _ only for looks

MR Ratha

Banumathi

Asogan - legend!

Mk Ramasamy

Chandrababu - just for his steps