The Day!!!

What is Valentine's Day all about my dear frendus? Is it all about Gifts, Kisses, Hugs all that mollycoddles just for that specific day Feb 14th? It all started a couple days after Christmas. Store fronts were filled with heart-shaped chocolate boxes, cuddly stuffed animals, and candy hearts with little sayings on them.
Some believe that February 14th is the most romantic day of the year, while others are ready to boycott the money making holiday. Forgive me if I decline to enthusiastically join this commercialized holiday ritual.

Valentines Day at one time was a symbol of youthful love. Though the origin of the day is somewhat hazy, the importance of the day has been stripped by the commercialism that now puts a huge guilt trip on us to “show our love" by purchasing our significant other a gift they don’t really need or want.

Valentine’s Day ranks second to Christmas in terms of the number of greeting cards that are sent. How pathetic is that.but seriously here men, we women don’t need the $100.00 bouquets of roses, the over priced Hallmark card or dinner at a fancy restaurant.

I am a person who is very voracious for love, a huge romantic, but to me an over priced bouquet of red roses doesn’t say love. To me romance is when my love one comes home from work and surprises me with a bouquet of fresh flowers because he wanted to brighten my day or when I wake up in the morning and his arms are around me or when he runs around me when i am busy cooking in the the kitchen . It is those little things that show me that he loves me and appreciates me. Just to higlight to some people out there who dont know the reason why valentine's day is being celebrated or i would say a day for you to spend all your hard earned savings lavishingly .. here u go...

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men — his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death. Valentine was jailed .According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor's daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

I strongly believe that just not that specific day where you illustrate your love to ur loved ones.... Make them feel warm in your arms not today, but every other day. Kiss them not only, but every other min of the day.... Yearn for them not only today, but every split second....caress them and make them forget the entire world with just your warm breathe.....Grow old together, Die in the hands of the one who gives u his/her heart.... I always told this to my entire crowd whenever i hosted on stage.... LOVE Means... L : Listen to each other O: Offer what you have to each other V : Value the memories of each other E: Endure good and bad with that one person.... My Valentine's day has been very sacred for the past 2years....i believe not in gifts but i deem that everyday love should be given out... And here i am today giving my love will all my heart and welcoming the overwhelmed love from the other beat with open arms....
It is more important to give spontaneously. Don’t wait for a specific day to show your wife/Hubby or girlfriend/boyfriend that you love her/him. Valentine's Day is just a one day away. Show your significant other that you care by giving them your time. It is important to appreciate them everyday. This Valentine’s Day let your gift come from your heart and not the store shelf. Loving you in a loving way my love...... as long as we can love each other , and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. Death ends a life not a relationship!!!! Happy Valentine's day!!!!

Do Indian Girls be on familiar terms with Make Up?

I wanna talk about something that’s been camping in my mind for quite sometime..After surfing Friendster, Facebook and Tagged i shoddily want to talk about.. btw.. (i badly want to see comments from my members and bi)  Indian Women with Makeup....!!!!

It so heartbreaking to know the fact that many indian girls these days do not know how to groom themselves with apparels and cosmectics..... I do have indian friends who have mind blowing sense of dressing and makeup.. hats of to those who know how to groom themselves!!!  Cheers to those folks!!!

Lets start with  the skin tone.... Dark skin can be a bane for people who crave a fair complexion. Though a lot of people have naturally dark skin, darkening of skin could also be due to hyperpigmentation and various other reasons like Heredity. I dont blame them if they want to look fair on pictures. That doesnt give them an excuse to powder themselves with foundation powders that is extremely white and those kind that you use for stage chinese opera (wayang) ! What is the right make up for dark and dusky complexion? .Choose a creamy or liquid foundation, but one that is not oily. Its always better to use a water based foundation.Choose somthing that is very near to your skin tone.... 

I am not saying that people with fair skin always have an advantage... Well fairer skin also have to keep a watch with their powder and nothing too white as the same will apply for them (Wayang).

Concealers

As we all jolly well know that "Naturally Indian girls " have dark eye rings and patches around their faces. Something that we cant really blame ourselves but of coz due to our pigmataions revolved. That doesnt give us the excuse not to cover up those dark eye bags which looks more worst of then the Panda bears out there. Many make the mistake with powdering themselves and not concentrating important facts like under eye and the ears. If u have a close look on the pictures that many girls take... their forehead will be white, and their eyes wld have been overlooked at and their ears are diffrent shade from their faces!! Thats when concealers come to your rescue...Concealers are applied to cover dark circles around the eyes, thereby grweatly enhancing the appearance of the face. Don't use a concealer that's white or more than half a shade lighter than your skin tone. Try for an exact match. Apply before foundation. Set the concealer with powder.

Eye Shadows and Eye Make up come Eyebrows

Lets start with eyebrows.. Women out there !!! whats wrong with u and ur skinny shaped eyebrows? Eyebrows are meant to be prominent and as being indians we naturally have thick eyebrows which is a blessing and many manjans yearn for that thickness. But sadly indians do not value that asset that they have! Most of these babez out there look more like they have tattooed their brows just like all those ah soh aunties that come to the wet market....!

Eyeshadows: This is something that many lack in.. I just dont understand whats with their unmatching colour conbination that they have? god !!!! Sometimes many girls have this understanding that their eyelids are some kind of drawing blocks so they get all excited and paint their entire eye lids with the irrelevant colours that they have....! I just hope they will learn to blend the colours according to their outfits and please invest on good and high end eyeshadows my dear babes out there!!!!

Hairdo's

Many failed to catch some good informational programmes like America's Top Model, Good Magazines and many other materials to get their tips on hairdos......Lets look at the manjans and the nattex out there who are very well verse with the up to date hairdo!!! Unlike tamilians... who are late telecast and after all that fashion is over and done with, thats when they come up with those hairdo.... or they have to be a replica of some other gals and try to be like them! "People creativity is something that many people lack in!!!!" * especially tamilians!!*

Creativity means is a mental and social process involving the generation of new ideas or concepts!!!! Be yourself and come up with something new and not something that someone already have the  possession!!!! Create your own styles and allow people to distinguish you for what you are and not be a Clone of someone!!!

On the whole....not all but handful of  Indian Girls are the one who can give Ronald Macdonald clown a run for the money where make up is concerned!" Go natural as indian diva's like us look best without those paintings.. Makeup is just some Add ons and not ur daily stipulation!!!! Wake up ur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and cut those god damn flashes on ur cam whenu wana take snaps... it aint making the pic look any better!!!! 

They say Old is Gold....!!!!

Old is gold.... My today's topic.... btw... my sincere apologies to my members for the late updates.. kinda held up with thinkoz...

This entire week i have been catching some black and white movies...

1. Kudiyiruntha Kovil
2. Ennga veetu pillai
3. Nenjil oor aalayam

I am very much amazed how the oldies use to go gaga n gugu over MGR...and even yada yada even till today. *includes ma dad too* an ardent fan of that faggady doo daa....

Its so much of idiocy to know that 1960's superstar had a repulsive dressing sense and that his body was never robust at all... Its so sad to know that poor Panduri Bai had to be his mother or elder sister... Who ever did casting for his movies, had a bad casting knowledge!

Talking about the actress... hmm *pukes* i can never submit to Aunty saroja devi... whats with her kann mayi? gosh? acting cute in his movies with that kinda of cracked voice? please give me a break.... nothing beats padmini.. she is one actress revolved with so much talents... Naatiyam, Actin skills, many more .. beauty.. and i mean real beauty with/o having to paint her face so much with powder and eye shadows... Padmini won several awards and the goverment of the former soviet union released a postage stamp to honour her!

Songs: I cant contradict that songs were good during the old days...The lyrics are still ringing in my head! MSV is a legend too... but there is once in a interview TMS claimed that there is no MGR and Sivaji without having to have his voice in them... hmm.. thats something which i have to give a good reflection....

For a wrap... People should open up their eyes and support the real artist in cinefield... If only actors and actresses made a better choice with their roles and characters... MGR is a cartoon image to the cinefield..... Sivaji is legendary.....

My preference for actors:

Sivaji

Muthuraman

kalyana Kumar

Nagesh

Thangavelu

Manorama

Padmini -

Major SundarRajar

Ravikumar _ only for looks

MR Ratha

Banumathi

Asogan - legend!

Mk Ramasamy

Chandrababu - just for his steps