Do u use repeated pet names for your lover?

Halo amis!!!! I was conducting a survey on Facebook and it went pretty well. I had a very good response from my FB friends. You see thats why everyone has decided to stick with Facebook coz there is so many acivities to do! I am glad that i fixed myself with Facebook.

Well.. Today’s topic is with regards to my survey that i conducted.

Would you call your current love the same lovey dovey way that you use to call your EX?

This is a topic that i very mcuh wanna discuss. This has been biting me for a very long time. When you are in a deep relationship, majority of indivuals love calling their other half names like”Sweetheart, Baby, Honey and blar blar…I totally defend myself and other’s out there that its someone special in your life and that you want to cherish them with ur lovey dovey names….

But here is the question….. Do u name or call your current boyfriend the same way that you use to call your EX? Ouch!!!!!!!!! Now this is my argument for today….Take a quick glace on the comments that i received from facebook:

Killawill William at 10:45am April 23

i dunno that but i know one thing u r my partner in crime always and i mish u

Rathika Devi at 11:45am April 23

Hmmm… personally i won’t… It wld feel too weird… the more common terms like darl / baby… i wld… But the ones that were invented for that one guy.. i wouldn’t use it on anyone else….

Geraldine Tan at 12:15pm April 23

i dont think i will, i would just change names of them, i wont stick to one name, fr example dear. SO BORING. i dont call them nice names, i call them sluts, OEI, bitches and stuffs.

Geetanjali Bathumalai at 12:22pm April 23

ohh dear !! very gd topic!!! … my Opinion wld be .. NO!!… i mean maybe the normal words like “dear” darlin” wld be ok ….but not the special names u used to call ur EX…… if u do then it only shows tat u have not gotten over ur EX…….

Cheryl Li at 12:50am April 24

surely not… wud bring back too many bad memories!!! kekek.

Majority of them come in common terms with me that they will not regard or call their current

boyfriend the way they use to call their EX. I believe that is very insulting to the current lover you are with.

But of coz some folks out there can speak out and they reckon that when they are in a new relationship

which is correspondent to being in a total new life. I personally feel that you should never bring your past memories to the

new-fangled relationship you are with. Everyone is special in their own way.. Everyone deserves to be treated in a lovely way

Like what my friend geetz says in the comment box…Calling the same name means that you have yet gotten over your EX… I

solidly deem that when you utter the same name for your current lover….Doesnt it bring back the memories of ur EX? There are so many names to be called? So y use the same old names on your partner? That is very much disgusting….. If u are in more than 1 relationship .. does it allow you to call your 5 other lovers the same way ? Gosh!

Monkey See Monkey Do. Unoriginal Sin!.

Hey peeps….Its been eons since i last wrote on my blog! yesh i have been on a silent retreat!! * yeah for like real!!* Cant imagine myself being silent even for a split second…. gosh!!! Just have been a busy bee with work and blar blar!!!

Night was falling. The sun disappeared below the horizon and the sky turned dark . It had just finished raining and i spotted a rainbow right outside my room window. With a soothing song playing right behind me and the room being filled with cold silence i am writting this blog….

Let me just say something a head of time before you start to question why I’m doing all of this on the account of seemingly one individual. What is being original all about? I think i have always stated on my blogs that being creative is the best thing u can do for yourself.. I have decided to take it upon myself to type all of this out because I am irritated by the subject, the ignorance, and the hypocracy. It is also because I feel that some things, just need to be said. If you don’t plan on reading, then don’t bother commenting. That may seem a bit harsh, but to me that is just being respectful. Thank you.

Being innovative is something that has to come in you and not from others. What is it with some deprived individuals that by doing the exact likeness of that someone will bring you far or make it look like its been created by thyself?

Le me give u a scenario… A is someone who loves the artistic world and he is always creating something new for himself with his bright ideas and posting it out for people to appreciate his thoughts, reflections, judgements. But there comes B who is not willing to cultivate his own ideas and he does the duplicity of A. From head to toe i would say. There are some obvious examples of how this particular individual tried to do such.word to word, actions to actions, likings to likings, styles to styles!!!….

People recognise you for your orginality… Not for your unreal actions… I strongly believe that “B” is very much fascinated with “A”… Spellbound to “A’s” Surrounding, lifestyle, A’s Likings, A’s actions, performance and the list goes on… ”If you create your own characters, you are definitely original.”

You can never be ‘A”! Coz it takes only one to be “A” and another to be a “B” Be yourself and people will love you for that. Stop that Copyright thingy.! Guess these folks out there have not been well thought of being unique! Hopefully turning into a new leaf will do good for the affected souls!!! I have got only one thing to say…

All things original are created, but not all that is created is original!