Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Do u use repeated pet names for your lover?

Halo amis!!!! I was conducting a survey on Facebook and it went pretty well. I had a very good response from my FB friends. You see thats why everyone has decided to stick with Facebook coz there is so many acivities to do! I am glad that i fixed myself with Facebook.

Well.. Today’s topic is with regards to my survey that i conducted.

Would you call your current love the same lovey dovey way that you use to call your EX?

This is a topic that i very mcuh wanna discuss. This has been biting me for a very long time. When you are in a deep relationship, majority of indivuals love calling their other half names like”Sweetheart, Baby, Honey and blar blar…I totally defend myself and other’s out there that its someone special in your life and that you want to cherish them with ur lovey dovey names….

But here is the question….. Do u name or call your current boyfriend the same way that you use to call your EX? Ouch!!!!!!!!! Now this is my argument for today….Take a quick glace on the comments that i received from facebook:

Killawill William at 10:45am April 23
i dunno that but i know one thing u r my partner in crime always and i mish u
Rathika Devi at 11:45am April 23
Hmmm… personally i won’t… It wld feel too weird… the more common terms like darl / baby… i wld… But the ones that were invented for that one guy.. i wouldn’t use it on anyone else….
Geraldine Tan at 12:15pm April 23
i dont think i will, i would just change names of them, i wont stick to one name, fr example dear. SO BORING. i dont call them nice names, i call them sluts, OEI, bitches and stuffs.
Geetanjali Bathumalai at 12:22pm April 23
ohh dear !! very gd topic!!! … my Opinion wld be .. NO!!… i mean maybe the normal words like “dear” darlin” wld be ok ….but not the special names u used to call ur EX…… if u do then it only shows tat u have not gotten over ur EX…….
Cheryl Li at 12:50am April 24
surely not… wud bring back too many bad memories!!! kekek.
Majority of them come in common terms with me that they will not regard or call their current
boyfriend the way they use to call their EX. I believe that is very insulting to the current lover you are with.
But of coz some folks out there can speak out and they reckon that when they are in a new relationship
which is correspondent to being in a total new life. I personally feel that you should never bring your past memories to the
new-fangled relationship you are with. Everyone is special in their own way.. Everyone deserves to be treated in a lovely way
Like what my friend geetz says in the comment box…Calling the same name means that you have yet gotten over your EX… I
solidly deem that when you utter the same name for your current lover….Doesnt it bring back the memories of ur EX? There are so many names to be called? So y use the same old names on your partner? That is very much disgusting….. If u are in more than 1 relationship .. does it allow you to call your 5 other lovers the same way ? Gosh!

3 comments:

Sugmad Eshwar said...

How come you never asked me... just becos i dont have ex... dude nambey leveley verey ippey.

Sugmad Eshwar said...

Just imagine i am doggying her and she is screaming her ex name.. wow doesnt it turn me on.... MOHAAANNNNNNN MOOOHAAAAAAANNNNN

*hey bitch i am not mohan i am eshwar! now stop screaming and get my candy in your mouth.*

spiczy said...

hahaha .. good one memberz...!! well.. i did post this out on facebook. but u didnt have the time to read on it and comment.!